Give the gift of oOrgasmic pleasure.

Now is the time to lean into oOrgasmic pleasure. Whether you chose to blow things up or not, we are in for a ride. Find your orgasmic self in 2025.  

If you have a significant other, my advice, shag your way through the next four years! There is nothing like the present moment. 

Give the gift of oOrgasmic pleasure.   I cannot think of a better, more loving surprise than a good, long shagging this Holiday Season. 

With a ready and willing partner you’re almost there, you just need to set the mood, dial in your space, and grab the lube. Santa hat optional. 

Setting the Mood

Show up feeling sexy and bring no shame!

If adding cannabis to sexplay, plan that night with intention.  If you and your partner are on the same page, do your thing.  If you are elevating the experience with drugs and are new to the experience remember to start slow and dose with intention.

Make the time and dial in your space. Showing up and staying present for pleasure requires mindfulness. There is a sweet spot with sex and drugs that gets better and better with practice. Know your partner's limits and desires. This will help build good routines around pleasure.  

Dialing in the Vibe:

If setting up for sexytime it is important to get the visuals, lighting, music, and (if your thing) mind altering substances dialed in before you bring it. 

Mind altering substances⏩ Elevate your senses and free your mind. Used with intention and dosed correctly this is a great way to drop in and stay present.

Visuals ⏩ Keep the lighting low and sexy and minimize distractions. Technology is great if used to dial in your space for better sex but it can also get in the way.

Music ⏩ Set the tone and rhythm. This starts with a good playlist.  

My Gifts to You 🌈🧡

oOYes oOrgasmic Jams

Get in the groove with an hour of Marvin Gaye, Betty Davis, Funkadelic and so much more… 

The oOYes Sex Quiz

Fun way to blow open communication and try new things. 

Take this SexQuiz with a partner(s) on separate devices to open communication and explore new kinks. Answer multiple choice questions with oOYes, oONo or oOMaybe and give, receive or both to 101 sex acts.

I wish you a very happy, Shagadelic Holiday and hope you can start it off with a bang!

Remember, Prioritize and Practice oOrgasmic Pleasure, You will always have something better to do. 

Enjoy 🌈🧡